Confidence-Building Activities for Kids

 Confidence-building activities for kids are a wonderful way to prepare them for the real world and give them the tools they need to believe in themselves. That’s why I prioritized instilling confidence in my girls throughout their childhood. Today, I want to share some confidence-building ideas, as well as why this is so important!

Why is it Important for Kids to Develop Confidence?

While it’s true that you can work on your mindset at any age, learning helpful habits, positive thought patterns, and life skills early on gives children a huge advantage. Young brains are especially receptive to new ideas, and while learning is possible later in life, it becomes more challenging as we age.

When kids struggle with confidence during childhood, it can lead to:

  • Decreased school performance

  • Less willingness to explore new hobbies or interests

  • Emotional instability, particularly as they enter their teenage years

How to Help Children Become More Confident

Avoiding a lack of confidence in children is easier than it seems, as long as you focus on a few key lessons:

  1. Nobody is perfect. Success doesn’t require perfection. Teaching kids this early helps them try new things without fear.

  2. Skills are built over time. Encourage a growth mindset, so your child knows it’s okay not to be perfect at something right away—they can improve with practice.

  3. Everyone is unique. Help children embrace their individuality and avoid comparing themselves to others.


8 Confidence-Building Activities for Kids 

1. Repeating Affirmations
Positive affirmations are powerful at any age. A fun way to introduce them is to write affirmations on slips of paper and let your child draw one each morning to start the day with positivity.

2. Handling Responsibilities
Age-appropriate chores or responsibilities teach kids that they can show up for themselves and accomplish tasks. Each completed task reinforces their sense of competence.

3. Choosing a Hobby
Hobbies encourage children to follow their passions and develop skills that matter to them. If your child is interested in starting something new, encourage it. If they’re unsure, brainstorm a list of potential hobbies together.

4. Shifting Negative Self-Talk
Negative self-talk can erode confidence. If your child is hard on themselves, help them reframe their thoughts. A simple exercise: have them list five “mean” things they say to themselves, then rewrite them into positive statements.

5. Compliment Games
Encourage kids to give and receive compliments. This can be done at dinnertime, before bed, or in group settings as a “compliment chain.” It fosters both confidence and kindness.

6. Visualization
Mindset matters! Before a new or challenging experience, guide your child to visualize the event going well. This helps reduce anxiety and boosts confidence in their abilities.

7. Journaling
Journaling helps kids stay in touch with their emotions and thought processes. Understanding their own feelings is a key part of developing inner confidence.

8. Learning
Learning builds confidence by giving kids knowledge and skills they can rely on. Encourage curiosity both in school subjects and in everyday life. Being well-rounded will help them feel secure and capable in a variety of situations.

Final Thoughts

Teaching children confidence from an early age is pivotal for their development. These activities are a great place to start. By helping your kids believe in themselves, you’re equipping them for a successful, resilient, and happy life.

**Build confidence, spark curiosity, and have fun! Check out my activity workbooks.**

Boys Workbook

Girls Workbook


Thanks for reading!

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