8 Fun Confidence Building Activities For Kids

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Confidence building activities for kids can be a great way to prepare them for the real world and give them the tools they need to believe in themselves. That’s why I prioritized instilling confidence in my girls all throughout their childhood.

So today, I’d love to share some confidence-building ideas with you, along with why they matter so much.

Why is it important for kids to develop confidence?

While it’s true that you can change your mindset at any point in life, it’s also true that learning helpful habits, positive thought patterns, and new skills early on can be incredibly valuable. A child’s brain is especially receptive when they’re young, which makes it the perfect time to develop these tools.

If kids don’t build confidence during childhood, it can lead to struggles like:

  • Lower school performance

  • Missed opportunities to explore new hobbies or interests

  • Unstable emotions as they move into adolescence

How can you help children to be more confident?

The good news is, building confidence in kids doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are a few key points to emphasize as you guide your child:

  • Nobody is perfect. Kids don’t need to be perfect to be successful or lovable.

  • Growth takes time. Skills are built over time, and it’s okay to struggle or start out unsure.

  • Everyone is unique. Each child is special in their own way, and comparison doesn’t help anyone grow.


8 Confidence Building Activities for Kids

Now let’s explore some fun and meaningful activities that will help your child feel more secure and confident in themselves.

1. Repeating Affirmations

Positive affirmations are one of the best tools for building confidence. Try writing them on slips of paper and letting your child draw one each morning. You could also display them on a mirror, in their lunchbox, or in a journal.

2. Handling Responsibilities

When kids have chores or tasks they can manage on their own, it helps them feel capable. Choose age-appropriate responsibilities and celebrate when they complete them. Even something as simple as making their bed or packing their own backpack can build pride and confidence.

3. Choosing a Hobby

Hobbies allow children to explore their interests and see themselves grow. Whether it’s music, sports, crafts, or reading, a consistent hobby is a great confidence builder. Support whatever sparks their curiosity, and let them know it’s okay to try different things until they find the right fit.

4. Shifting Negative Self Talk

If your child says things like “I’m not good at this” or “I always mess up,” help them reframe those thoughts. A good activity is to have them list a few negative things they’ve said about themselves, then write a positive alternative for each one. This teaches emotional awareness and helps build a more encouraging inner voice.

5. Compliment Games

In group settings, a compliment chain is a fun and heartwarming activity. Each person gives a compliment to the one before them. If it’s just you and your child, you can still do this during dinner, bedtime, or whenever you’re together. Giving and receiving compliments both support confidence and connection.

6. Visualization

Help your child imagine themselves succeeding in upcoming situations, like giving a presentation or trying out for a team. Visualization is a powerful mindset tool, and talking through what they want to happen can lower anxiety and increase belief in themselves.

7. Journaling

Journaling is often overlooked when it comes to confidence, but writing down feelings and experiences helps children better understand themselves. This self-awareness creates a stronger sense of identity and encourages emotional growth.

8. Learning

Learning builds confidence too. Every time a child gains knowledge or solves a problem, they grow more assured in their abilities. And the more they learn — in and out of school — the more prepared they’ll be for different life experiences. Try to make learning a daily habit, and keep it diverse and fun.

Final Thoughts

Confidence is one of the best gifts you can give your child. It impacts their relationships, their schoolwork, their decisions, and even how they treat themselves as they grow up. The activities above are a great starting point, and even small daily efforts can make a big difference over time.

Thanks for reading! If you enjoyed this post, feel free to check out more of my content on parenting, homemaking, and encouraging strong family connections.

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