A Can Do Mom

I wanted to let you know that I’ve officially moved my blog from WordPress to Blogger. I really enjoyed using WordPress, but the hosting fees were getting a bit too high for me. Switching to Blogger helps me keep things simple and affordable so I can focus on what really matters — building a supportive community of moms. My goal with this blog has always been to create a space where moms can come together, share experiences, and encourage one another. While I do plan to share some Etsy finds and affiliate links here and there, making money isn’t the main reason I’m doing this. The real reward is connecting with all of you amazing moms out there. Thank you for being part of this journey with me. I’m excited for what’s ahead!

Hi, I’m Becca — the mom behind A Can Do Mom ! I’m a Christian and lifelong nurturer who believes motherhood doesn’t have to mean losing yourself. I created this space to share encouragement, real-life tips, and honest conversations for moms who are doing their best (even when they feel like they’re barely holding it together). Over the years, I’ve worn a lot of hats — caregiver, teacher, nurse, advocate, and everything in between. I homeschooled my two daughters all the way through, and now that they’re both adults, I’ve stepped into a new season of motherhood. One of my daughters lives with anxiety, OCD, and ADHD. The other has epilepsy and severe food allergies. So when I say I understand the mental load of parenting, I really do. I started this blog to help other moms like me — women who are juggling big things, often without much support, and who still want to live with purpose, faith, and a little bit of peace. Whether I’m sharing parenting insights, home life tips, gentle discipl...

 A lot of people want to believe that grief follows a neat timeline. That after a year, or five, or ten, the pain just disappears. But the truth is, grief isn’t something you finish. It changes over time, but it never truly ends. When we lose someone we love, that love doesn’t vanish with them. It stays here with us, which means the grief stays too, in different forms. Sometimes it’s a quiet ache in the background. Other times, it can hit all at once, sharp and unexpected, like it just happened yesterday. At least, that’s how it’s been for me and for some of my family. Almost 8 years ago, my dad passed away. But if I’m being honest, my grieving started long before that. He had health issues for years, and there were several times we thought we were going to lose him. Once, we even said our goodbyes. He was ready, but he knew I wasn’t, so we had a long conversation about death and what it meant to him. That talk is one I’ll always hold close. He wasn’t afraid of dying. He didn’t w...

If you want your children to grow into kind, empathetic, and likable adults… learning how to teach them respect is absolutely key. Basic respect for others is a core part of being a decent human being but children don’t automatically understand what it looks like or why it matters. That’s where we come in. In this post, I’m going to share a few effective, real-life ways to help teach your children respect whether you're starting when they’re little or circling back now that they’re a bit older. Because it’s never too late. Step One – Model the Respect You Want to See  There’s a reason parenting advice so often boils down to “lead by example”: because kids learn by watching . Telling your children to respect others doesn’t mean much if you’re not modeling it yourself. And I don’t just mean strangers or people in public — I mean your spouse (even during disagreements), your children (yes, even when they’re little), and yourself . When my girls were growing up, I always made s...

 Learning how to set boundaries with parents is a pivotal step in most of our lives. Sometimes we need to set boundaries with our own parents, help our partners set boundaries with theirs, or even teach our kids how to set them with us. But regardless of the situation, it’s not always easy. Trust me, I know. Today we’re breaking down the basics of how to set boundaries with parents, without damaging the relationship in the process. What Are Boundaries? Let’s start by talking about what boundaries actually are. For a long time, boundaries were only thought of in physical terms. For example: “Please don’t hug me without asking.” “I’m not comfortable with you touching me without my permission.” “Could you please stop touching me in that spot?” These are still valid, of course. But boundaries can go far beyond physical space. Emotional boundaries, time boundaries, and communication boundaries are just as important. Here are a few more examples: “I don’t take phone c...

Whether it’s you, your partner, or your kids, ADHD can make cleaning feel overwhelming and incredibly boring. In my home, both my husband and oldest daughter have ADHD, so I know this struggle well. The good news? Cleaning can get easier. These practical tips are designed to help ADHD brains work with their natural rhythms, not against them. 1. Make Cleaning Fun (Yes, Really) Cleaning doesn’t offer much stimulation, which is why it often feels unbearable for ADHD brains. One simple fix? Pair cleaning with something enjoyable: Listen to a favorite podcast or audiobook Blast your go-to playlist Call a friend and chat while you clean Pro tip: Talking to someone while cleaning is a form of “body doubling” — a proven ADHD-friendly productivity tool. 2. Set One Clear Goal Before You Start ADHD often brings executive dysfunction which means knowing you should clean but not knowing where to begin. Make it easier by picking one specific goal, like: “I’ll clean for 15 m...

There’s been a big movement lately among parents who want to embrace gentle parenting. And I’m all for it! I think it’s a great alternative to the stricter parenting methods many of us grew up with. But I also realize there’s a lot of controversy surrounding gentle parenting discipline techniques and whether or not they really work. So I wanted to put together a list of ideas for ways you can discipline your children without using the outdated methods many of us are trying to leave behind. But first… What Is Gentle Parenting? Let’s start by clearing up a common misunderstanding. Gentle parenting is often mistaken for parents just “letting their kids do whatever they want.” In reality, gentle parenting is all about treating your kids with respect and understanding, while still teaching them right from wrong. Instead of using fear, control, or harsh punishments, this approach emphasizes strong communication, empathy, and boundary setting. I wrote an article a while back with some g...

Although most of us think of puppies or kittens when we imagine potential pets for kids, there are many more options than just those! So today we’ll be going over several of them, and discussing the pros and cons of each option. Hopefully by the end, you’ll have found a pet that works for your family. 1. Dogs Starting off with perhaps the most popular type of pets for kids, we have dogs. I’ve personally had many dogs throughout my lifetime, including three after my children were born (a shih tzu, a walker hound, and a beagle). All of which we’ve loved immensely. But as with any pet, there are pros and cons to adopting a dog when you have kids. Pros There’s a large variety to choose from. There are so many breeds of dogs that it’s easy to find one that fits your individual needs. Retrievers and Labradors, for instance, are very popular with kids. They’re loyal and make great companions. “Dogs are a man’s best friend” and they can be a child’s as well. In fact, the bond between ...

I hear people discuss generational wealth a lot nowadays, and I understand why. It’s perfectly natural to want to build up money that can be passed down through future generations and give your descendants a better future. But I think generational wellness is equally important, if not more so. Because your quality of life depends on your health just as much as your finances. So today we’re going to talk about five ways you can start building that legacy of wellness — for yourself, your kids, and future generations. 1. Create Specific Goals First off, you can’t achieve a goal you haven’t defined. Especially when it’s something as intentional as building generational wellness. So the first step is to clearly identify which aspects of health and wellness you want to pass down. Maybe you want to put more focus on mental health. Or perhaps you want to prioritize nutrition and physical activity. Maybe you want to do all of it. Whatever the case may be, take time to evaluate exactly what...

Teaching kids to pray can feel a little intimidating at first. After all, introducing something as personal and spiritual as prayer to your child is no small thing. But for Christian parents, it’s one of the most meaningful gifts you can give—helping your children begin a lifelong relationship with God. Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, you can teach them to pray in a way that feels natural, comforting, and personal. Here’s a simple step-by-step guide (plus bonus tips) to help you get started. Step 1 – Lead By Example The best way to teach prayer is by modeling it. Let your children see you pray regularly at meals, before bed, during tough moments, or even when you’re grateful and joyful. When my girls were little, I often prayed “for” them at bedtime or dinner, keeping the language simple and heartfelt. Invite them into the process as they grow. You might ask: “Is there anything you want me to pray for?” “Want to repeat after me?” It’s also important to accept...